How will the new 'rule of six' affect the way we socialise?

Since lockdown lifted, we've been trying to figure out how to operate within the ever-evolving guidelines dictating how we can safely go about our day-to-day lives. As of Monday 14 September, socialising in groups of more than six people is banned, yet commuting into work, taking the kids to school and eating out to help out are all very much encouraged. There’s even talk of a ‘seat out to help out’ scheme to get bums back on seats in theatres and other arts organisations. (We live in hope.) Meanwhile, a giant, looming question mark hangs over whether these new restrictions will still be limiting our freedoms by Christmas.

Many of us are expected to throw in the towel, swapping life in the new diluted version of London for one in idyllic countryside, where the lack of buzz and slower pace of life are all part of the charm. In the meantime, we’re getting our fix via Instagram, where the #cottagecore tag – selling us honey-coloured fields, blooming gardens and the rustic apparel needed to complete the look – has seen a spike in searches and posts since lockdown.

But how is this uncertainty over how we can and can’t socialise affecting how we mingle, and the types of gatherings we plan with friends and loved ones? And do the new rules imposed by the government really have our best interests at heart?



‘As the summer sneaks into autumn, we will be focusing on culinary experiences, and maybe even some silent discos to replace the usual after-party,’ says Wadsworth, revealing what could become a trend across the private events industry. She also believes people will continue socialising outdoors where possible, looking to their winter wardrobes to help them adapt to the cooler weather. Wadsworth adds that she and her team will continue helping clients with the logistics around ‘appropriate table configurations’, also offering them ‘bespoke, softly scented hand sanitiser and handmade, embroidered silk face masks to make everything feel a little nicer.’

Jackson, who witnessed her local allotment become the social epicentre of the community during lockdown, believes people will always find a way to socialise, even if it means doing so in smaller circles. ‘It was really interesting through lockdown to see the allotment becoming more and more important to people as the opportunity to be in other social spaces beyond the home disappeared,’ she recalls.

‘[The new measures] might mean that people stick to living more local lives and hanging out closer to home, or at home in smaller groups,’ she says. ‘This also links to changes in work life; if, for example, a lot of people continue to work from home and don't return to central London in droves, they might be more likely to socialise nearer where they live.’



So, are these new ways of socialising here for good, or are we likely to revert back to ‘old normal’ traditions if and when it’s safe?

In Jackson’s view, this will depend as much on whether institutions survive further months without the business as on our appetite to get back out there. ‘We will have to see which spaces and places survive this crisis. If a lot of nightclubs, cafés and cinemas close down, it will take a while to build that social sphere back up again,’ she points out.

At the same time, Jackson is confident that, as social beings, our desire for face-to-face contact isn’t going anywhere. ‘Maybe I'm being a romantic humanist here, but I can't see online contact replacing in-person contact,’ she says. ‘For many people, video calls and endless Zoom meetings are ultimately exhausting and unsatisfactory. We are social animals and a new social realm will emerge.'

Wadsworth is hopeful for an eventual return to the old ways of socialising, too, but believes there is some good we can take away from this experience. ‘I truly hope that we can learn from the lessons we have been taught, by appreciating the time we have with loved ones,’ she says. ‘However, once a vaccine comes into force we, like everyone else, can’t wait to celebrate properly en masse with friends new and old.’